Don't Ever Lose Faith- July 25, 2006 When I think about the worst mistakes that I have made in my life, theres one common thread. The trouble came with a loss of faith. A despair. A feeling that this is horrible, it is never going to change, and I will just suffer. I might as well give up and face it. But, you know what Things did changejust not on my schedule. By being impatient for change, by deciding that since it hadnt happened on my time schedule, it wouldnt happen at all, I created additional suffering for myself, and..http://aspielife.blogspot.com/2006/07/dont-ever-lose-faith.html Focus on Your Cans- July 15, 2006 When you're aspie, it can be easy to focus on can'ts: I can't do this, I can't do that. Most of my life, I talked myself out of things with can'ts. I can't do that - my social skills aren't good enough. I can't do that - I'd be too embarrased by my speech impediment. Can't, can't, can't... Not only is this limiting, it just makes you feel lousy. How can you feel good about yourself, when you've already decided that you will failWhat I have learned, lately, is that success comes when you...http://aspielife.blogspot.com/2006/07/focus-on-your-cans.html Get Good! Get Out! Communicate!- July 12, 2006 No, I havent dropped off the face of the earth. Ive been running around like crazy concerts, fun, and continuing to look for another source of employment. Does anyone else break out in hives at the mention of the word networking I find myself extremely frustrated by my challenges in this area. How do you advertise that youre out there looking without doing yourself in where you are How can you be certain that those you network with can be trusted In the past, I have been extremely lucky...http://aspielife.blogspot.com/2006/07/get-good-get-out-communicate.html |